Defining me by what I don’t do

By mattsmallbone | Filed in God

I realized a very sad thing today.

I realized that during my Universtity years… my Christianity was defined by the things that I wouldn’t do.

I wouldn’t drink, swear or have sex.

One of the saddest things about evangelical Christianity in 2010 is that the average Joe only knows us by what we don’t do. Unfortunately… “they will know that we are Christians by our love” is more of a song these days than any kind of honest assessment by the vast majority of us who attend church on Sunday.

Let’s change this. The church NEEDS to be a force rather than a fortress.

Love

Matt

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Generous to a fault

By mattsmallbone | Filed in Relationships

gen·er·ous/ˈjenərəs/Adjective
1. (of a person) Showing a readiness to give more of something, as money or time, than is strictly necessary or expected: “generous with her money”.
2. Showing kindness toward others

About twice a year I hear someone describe another as ‘generous to a fault’. It is a saying that is often used during speeches at funerals and weddings.

It is a backhanded compliment that could only be stated (honestly) by someone who is skeptical of generosity.

I guess that these people view generosity as something that should have limits.

I disagree with them.

Of course… this phrase is hyperbole… I guess… but it is not useful in the western world in 2010. We occupy a world which is determined to take care of number one.

I think that it is impossible too be ‘too generous’. (I concede that if you starve to death because you have given away your last dollar that this may be an exception… but generous people tend to have many friends… and I really doubt that many expire in this manner).

Generosity is actually one of the great things about being a part of a civilized society.

We need to start a revolution of generosity.

You could start by buying dinner for your friends (rather than splitting the bill) the next time you are out at a restaurant. This is a basic form of generosity that will never be forgotten. This is the the bottom rung of the generosity ladder (loving your friends is easy). However, this is a ladder worth climbing.

As you ascend… you will realize that you are happier and have more friends than you can ever imagine.

“Generous to a fault”. BAH. Go and read a vampire novel.

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Taking on David Robinson…

By mattsmallbone | Filed in Sport

Hey friends,

Things have been fairly busy lately. I trust that you are well. Check out this video from the recent Michael W. Smith cruise to Alaska. Playing basketball against an NBA hall-of-famer was probably the highlight of my year.

Matt

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Summer bloggin… and a cheap car

By mattsmallbone | Filed in Uncategorized

Blogging during the summer is a difficult thing for me. I would rather be outside.

It has been an amazing couple of weeks of family fun since I got home from the world tour. Plenty of fun in the sun. I haven’t been this tanned (I am a few shades darker than pink) since I spent all of my summer playing cricket in the early 90′s.

Summer blogging is for the birds.

Anyway… I will be back at the computer consistently soon. I have some interesting thoughts regarding authentic Christian life running through my brain that I would like to work through with you all.

A lot changed for me while in Africa.

In particular, I have been rethinking my priorities in terms of finance.

For example… I’m not sure if I ever want to own a car that costs more than $3000. I also think that our 3 bedroom house in our hick part of town will suit us just fine for a long time to come.

There is plenty on my mind. I just need a rainy day to get this all on paper:)

Love,

Matt

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Guilty as charged

By mattsmallbone | Filed in God

I stood before a judge this morning…

I had been clocked going a mere three miles an hour faster than what I could have got away with (whilst dropping a mate at the airport). It was an understandable, even charitable mistake. Three miles an hour is the speed at which humans walk. It was no big deal.

However, I stood in front of that well-mannered and educated man and I said,

“Guilty, your honour”.

Despite the fact that I was driving with no evil intentions in mind, I was as guilty as both the lady who didn’t strap her kids into their car seats and the guy who disrupted a funeral procession.

My profession of guilt was humbling and energizing all at the same time. It was freeing to admit my transgression to another human. The Catholics are right about that.

At my moment of confession, a lot of things about eternity snapped into sharp focus.

I believe that I will be in that same position again one day after I die.  However,  next time I’ll be betting the farm that Jesus died to save me from myself and my sin.

On that day I want to hear “Well done good and faithful servant”.

I don’t really feel that good or faithful most of the time.  (The Calvinists are right about that total depravity stuff). BUT…  I will be covered by grace… and I believe that that will be enough. I have no other hope of success. Grace will be my first and last chance on that day.

I was reminded about the reality of the coming judgment today. My $75 fine is the best spiritual investment I’ve made in a long time. This was a life lesson worth having.

Drive carefully,

matt

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